For most of us, a bout of anger can happen often - with or without visible reason - depending on what our mind/subconscious is saying to us. To the recipient of the harsh words, it may feel uncalled for. But irrespective of the cause, the impact is sobering of mood, dulling of enthusiasm, and a feeling of distaste (even if temporary). But what/where does anger stem from? The more you mull over this question, the more answers you'll find. The most common reasons are ofcourse dissatisfaction, discontent, a feeling of disparity (notice how all the common causes start with dis-). But I'd like to dwell on two causes I've noticed, which are often not highlighted, maybe because we choose not to dwell so deep. The first being guilt and the second being a sense of entitlement. Anger stemming from guilt is easy to identify, especially in the corporate world. Lots of folks use the technique of offense is the best defense when it is actually their work that is lacking. Aggression se...
Maybe letting yourself down isn't so bad, after all. Maybe it's just another way of getting to know yourself better. And that could never be bad.
ReplyDeleteI agree it is important to know ones shortcomings... I was refering to the morbid feeling that suddenly sets in when you realize that you dont have the strength...
ReplyDeleteYou just think you don't. :)
ReplyDeleteI might sound like a cynic..
ReplyDeletebut..
A thought is all it takes !!!
Well, a thought is also all it takes to turn things the other way around. :)
ReplyDeleteyou just proved my point... the same thing has evoked 2 different thoughts.. hence the different perspectives....
ReplyDeleteanyway, i guess we never know which way the road will take us till we actually try it out ourself..