Harder

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Harder 
~  Becky Hemsley 2023

The harder we love
Means the harder we grieve
The harder it is
To go on when they leave

The harder to sleep
And the harder to wake
To know they’re not here
With each breath that we take

It’s hard to look forward
And hard to look back
Stuck in the middle,
Imprisoned and trapped

Where the harder the darkness
The harsher the light,
The harsher this world
That keeps spinning with life

But when that world’s feeling
So painful and hard
And you can’t imagine
Escaping the dark

It might help a little
To know it’s because
The harder we grieve
Means the harder we loved


Comments

  1. rudraprayaga13 December 2024 at 14:44

    Experiences good or bad will sure meet its opposite. Nice idea.

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    1. Dwiti R20 December 2024 at 15:34

      Strongly believe in the circularity of life. What goes comes back too!

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  2. Purple Assassin18 December 2024 at 14:58

    Heartbreaks are heavier than we can ever anticipate. The closer the one who passes, the deeper the pain. Maybe grief also reminds us of our humanness, and the fragility of this existence. Maybe. Maybe not. I guess we'll never know.

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    1. Dwiti R20 December 2024 at 15:37

      The pain makes us more human, often more vulnerable also. But once we overcome the pain, there is a strong will to make the most of the life that is left... to make it more meaningful and not wile it away on trivial issues.
      Thank you for coming by.

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