This is Life for you :)

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We all go through phases...
Of loving, and losing, 
Of loving what is lost,
and then losing what is loved...

And then it moves in a loop....
The love and the loss needn't pertain to a homo-sapien, but could be something as simple as a habit...

In all this loving and losing and loving all over again, I have come to a single consistent conclusion each time... 
Look for the bare necessities, Forget about your worries and your strife
And then the bare necessities will come to you :)



Comments

  1. AJEYA RAO3 November 2021 at 07:57

    Yes. and i thought i was the only one feeling nostalgic all the time. :-) Others around me do not seem to share that. But, yes, we need to move on and accept the present and not be sick in the past.

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    1. Dwiti R19 November 2021 at 23:12

      These songs are superb... they actually state the truth..
      Hakunamata is another example :)

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  2. SG4 November 2021 at 04:01

    Impressed with your blog post. Well written. Look for the bare necessities and forget about your worries and the bare necessities will come to you. Sound advice.

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  3. SG4 November 2021 at 04:03

    Happy Diwali

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    1. Dwiti R19 November 2021 at 23:12

      Happy Deepawali to you too... Hope you had a nice one...

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