I don't know if its good or bad, but I know that we all have to go through it once in a while. Maybe somewhere deep down we gulp a few things that should've been said, and on days it comes out on its own. Aren't our hearts fragile? I hope you're okay though xx
True. The cause actually might be that we bottle too much up. But who's to decide how much is enough... because once the flood gates open, it all starts gushing out !
After a long long time, I'll be doing something I've really wanted to do... Did I have to make some alternate settlements... maybe... Will it live up to the hype of it all... can't say... Was it worth a try.. only time will tell... But there is something very clear in my mind... I am glad I'm trying it out.. Because clearly, this is something I've been wanting to do for a long time now...
A lot of us believe that we should apologize for the wrong we've done...True.. But I've observed that a Sorry seems to be an easy shortcut... Uttering the one simple word seems to wash away the wrong-doing... We might not even pay as much attention, when we just utter the sorry... And obviously now, thou shall be forgiven !!! Source: Toonpool
How do you tell a 9 year old that her father is no more.... As adults, most of us grapple with the thought and logic (if any) behind a dear one leaving us... and I was suddenly left wondering what to say to this 9 year old !!! For the first time in a long time, I was left speechless, not because I didn't want to say anything, but simply because I didn't know what to say.. Does it make sense if I tell you that all of a sudden, I became the child with a rubbery tongue, and the 9 year old had turned into the adult, trying to respond sensibly and sensitively. I was stumped by the questions thrown at me. I felt so insufficient in my responses, but the child took even that in her stride. The strength of character in facing not just the reality but also fighting each dilemma in her own sweet way left me in deep thought for some time to come. I hope no one has to face what this child did... PS: I was faced with this recently when a close friend lost her husband, and I was told to tak
I don't know if its good or bad, but I know that we all have to go through it once in a while. Maybe somewhere deep down we gulp a few things that should've been said, and on days it comes out on its own. Aren't our hearts fragile? I hope you're okay though xx
ReplyDeleteTrue. The cause actually might be that we bottle too much up. But who's to decide how much is enough... because once the flood gates open, it all starts gushing out !
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