Just Do It !!

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We often have a longing in our life... for certain people, things, places.... We feel it... we absorb it... and sometimes we weep about it... But more often than not, most of us rarely do anything about it...

 We lead such busy lives, that the standard excuse for not fulfilling this longing is that we don't have time... but more often than not, what pulls us back is not the clock ticking by, but our will to just do it...

 We want to speak to our friends, but get caught up in our busy - mundane lives... and if our lives are not busy enough, we wonder if the other might be, and if we may end up disturbing them... This tendency to over-think an action is actually the true cause...

 So the next time you are longing for someone, but pickup the phone/car to reach out...
All the fulfillment of a wish to visit a place takes is booking of tickets...

 All you need is just an attitude to Just Do It !

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  1. SG15 July 2017 at 07:58

    Very good blog post. In this world people are here today and gone tomorrow. We all think it happens for others only and not for us. It happened to me last year. One evening my wife and I were joking and laughing. Then this accident happened. And, she passed away.

    So if you are longing for someone, please pick up the phone and reach out.

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    1. Dwiti R23 July 2017 at 17:07

      Exactly.... We spend too much time thinking about how/what/where...

      PS: Thank you for coming by... hope to see you soon..

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