Frustration

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Frustration is a frustrating feeling... It sucks you unto a loop of negativity leading to even more negative thoughts.. further leading to an increased dose of frustration....
It is like a maze which you can't exit by finding light at the end of the tunnel... there is no end of the tunnel...  one just has to break a hole through the damn tunnel, and try and feel better about themselves...

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  1. KK7 February 2016 at 12:15

    Whenever I feel frustrated, I try to think like I am trying to tell someone else to not feel frustrated. Works like a charm.

    The problem is when we end up in situations that we cannot control. Then it is hell :-)

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    1. Dwiti R16 February 2016 at 22:54

      Most of the times, the reason for frustration is that it is beyond our control... its a vicious circle..

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  2. Arpit27 February 2016 at 14:22

    Then break a hole through the tunnel, there you have your solution in the post! :)

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    1. Dwiti R28 February 2016 at 14:07

      I know... but breaking through the tunnel takes a lot of energy and courage...

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