For most of us, a bout of anger can happen often - with or without visible reason - depending on what our mind/subconscious is saying to us. To the recipient of the harsh words, it may feel uncalled for. But irrespective of the cause, the impact is sobering of mood, dulling of enthusiasm, and a feeling of distaste (even if temporary). But what/where does anger stem from? The more you mull over this question, the more answers you'll find. The most common reasons are ofcourse dissatisfaction, discontent, a feeling of disparity (notice how all the common causes start with dis-). But I'd like to dwell on two causes I've noticed, which are often not highlighted, maybe because we choose not to dwell so deep. The first being guilt and the second being a sense of entitlement. Anger stemming from guilt is easy to identify, especially in the corporate world. Lots of folks use the technique of offense is the best defense when it is actually their work that is lacking. Aggression se...
I believe everything that's upto 'choice' is means to an end and nothing more. But being oneself isn't always as easy as it may seem or is spoken about. I bet you can't and wont leave this one chance.
ReplyDeletetrue.. being your "natural" self is difficult.. infact unnatural, because it is difficult to be uninfluenced by the surroundings...
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