i really like this metaphor! i always have thought about getting to the core of a person or ouselves in the same way.... did you write this? may i post it on my blog with your permission and author name?
Thats not always right... its just that we dont do it right. i think we are more like cabbages, each layer is as fresh as the first and each one smells beautifully fresh!!
Life, in it's daily momentum, often becomes a series of mechanical actions or 'operational work' that typically occupies the day. This is not a gender specific issue but more a age related outcome. As a child, we don't care about anything. We are oblivious of activities around and just focus on what we want. As we grow up, we are more aware, and tend to take responsibility. Maybe convention associates taking up responsibilities with growing up, and I guess that's how the change subconsciously happens. The only gender based change (not applicable to 100% cases but definitely a wide majority) is that a lot of the operational work like groceries, laundry, keeping the house clean, watering the plants etc land in the hands of the female folk, and the more 'serious' things like providing financial stability etc get mapped to men. I am yet to figure out the reason for this de-facto mapping. I am not sure if these responsibilities landed with the respective g...
As we are growing up, if not earlier, most of us are hit by the reality of money. That we need to make some to survive... and a little more to make life a little better and so on.... Until we grey a little (or a lot :)) and figure out money will never be enough, unless we begin to think that it is ! I am currently reading Going Postal by Terry Pratchett . The characters might appear to be unreal, or is it the world surreal (!!!), but what they say makes a lot of sense... Here goes an extract : Money in not a thing. It is not even a process. It is a kind of shared dream. We dream that a small disc of common metal is worth the price of a substantial meal. Once you wake up from that dream, you can swim in a sea of money. What says you ?
Life is a funny thing... atleast most of the times.. We get what we don't want, Not what we expect.. Love the ideal, Miss the real... See what we want to, And ignore what we have... And then, on one of those depressing nights, regret doing it all..
great analogy
ReplyDeleteThats the irony of life..nice observation!!!
ReplyDeletethat's a nice thot
ReplyDeletevery true my friend...
ReplyDeletenever thought about life this way.
ReplyDeletethanks for sharing your thought ... gives me something to think about.
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ReplyDeletei really like this metaphor! i always have thought about getting to the core of a person or ouselves in the same way....
ReplyDeletedid you write this?
may i post it on my blog with your permission and author name?
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Thats not always right...
ReplyDeleteits just that we dont do it right.
i think we are more like cabbages, each layer is as fresh as the first and each one smells beautifully fresh!!